Oxford to Sabah : the final leg
Friday 7th December
Oops mixed my dates up on the last posting.
I left Frazer at the office and went for another wander around town. We met up again later and walked back to Cowley Rd for dinner (noodles no this and no that), Amy joined us then on to Don’s place which he opens every Friday to anyone before 10pm. It has the most amazing murals painted all over the walls in fluorescent paint. It is mostly a garden scene but the top floor is more like being in an aquarium. I left after a couple of hours and walked home. I like the feel of Oxford…..on this crisp cold night I passed others as they too were going home or on to other places. While there are plenty of cars a lot of people ride bikes or walk.
Saturday 8th
Saturday morning we were up early, firstly at 5.30 as my phone clock was still on Greek time! Then again I roused at 7.30 when I should have got up but dosed back until 8.30 which is when we should have left. However we made it in to town in time to catch the bus. A special bus to take a group of us to London for the Climate Change March. Well it was cold, windy and raining and my brolly turned inside out a couple of times and then was of no use as the fabric separated from the frame. There were some groups of musicians and in particular some strong drummers who kept our spirits high and kept us moving. We passed the houses of parliament, Big Ben then along Whitehall to Trafalgar Square, along Pall Mall then up to Piccadilly Circus along Regent St and finally stopped at Grosvenor Square for speeches…..sounds like Monopoly doesn’t it! By this time my feet were soaked and numb, but it was fun. I’ve never been an activist before! Given that it was all about global warming and it was cold and raining it all seems a bit silly really. It was dark by the time we set off down Oxford St to go back to catch the bus on Park Lane next to Hyde Park. The bus was warm so I nodded off on the way back. We were able to get off on London Rd and walk home and as Frazer had collected a couple of friends they came with us back to the house. I made some thick vegy soup then went off to a warm bed.
Sunday 9th
Sunday after Frazer and the girls had gone I felt like a day at home so I spent the afternoon clearing out some junk and cleaning the kitchen.
Monday 10th
Monday after a slow start I went into town and joined a walking tour. We retraced some of the streets I had been on but he filled in some history. Past the spot where three Protestant bishops were burned at the stake for defying the Catholic Mary Tudor. We went into Oriel College with its quads, gorgeous old dining hall and chapel. Past the Bod. and the Radcliffe Camera with its 5 and a half million books! The first record date of Oxford is 912 but it is older than that and the university is over 800 years old. The walk lasted two hours so by then it was almost time to meet Frazer who had been asleep most of the day. We walked down to his friends place across the Thames. It was Jacobs birthday and his mother had prepared a raw meal for us…including a gloop cake styled into 26. She translates Hebrew stuff into English and his father is a history professor working in the USA. Another English house crowded with chaos. Are they all like this? After dinner we went to the local community centre to join a 5 rhythms dance session. I thoroughly enjoyed this. It was freestyle movement to varying rhythms starting from slow, building up to frantic then back down again to very slow with motivation and guidance from the DJ….so it was like a spiritual release for want of a better explanation. Walked back into town and met up with Frazer’s friend Kamran who drives a cab (a real English cab) We put the bike in the back and he dropped me home. Frazer went with him to keep him company for a while as he worked.
Tuesday 11th
The weather has improved with the sun shining for a little while but it is even colder than before. However I am still slow to start each day but eventually I caught the bus into town and went to the Uni and Pitt Water Museum. Well what a wonderland these two places turned out to be. The first is a modern layout with dinosaurs, fossils and other things related to our evolution. The Pitt Water is a conglomeration of all sorts of things from around the world and displayed with the original hand written tags in old glass cabinets which are crowded into this huge high roofed room (high enough for an American Indian totem pole). The nicer side of Oxford is on the north so although it was getting dark I took a quick walk along a couple of the streets not far from the museum. It reminded me of North Adelaide a bit. Bought a few groceries and headed back for another raw food dinner party. Jane and Frazer were making things so I helped out but we only had two others and Jane’s husband Nigel show up. The food was a bit boring and I was glad when they all left!
Wednesday 12th
Tried to phone Travis but couldn’t get him and then phoned Ian to say hallo. I thought I might join him in Thailand but he is going home on the 17th and I am too slow to make up my mind. Frazer also seems to be needing some support at the moment as he is feeling frustrated that things aren’t happening for him. He went off to the office to do some neglected jobs after emptying out his car which he had collected with Kamrans help yesterday. I took some photos of it so I went to the office also so that he could use the photos to sell the car on the net. However I would hazard a guess that nothing will happen in a hurry! I then walked into town via the Botanic Gardens and then through Christ Church Meadow. This adjoins the Christ Church College so I then went for a tour through here. Parts of the Harry Potter films were made here and Alice in Wonderland was written for Alice Liddell the Dean of Christ Church’s daughter by Charles Dodgson alias Lewis Carroll a mathematics tutor at the college. Inspiration for this book was also found at the museums I visited yesterday. The place has some marvellous architectural features similar to Oriel and Exeter that I have already visited but on a grander scale. The chapel here is a cathedral! From here I cruised the shops for a while, bought a new umbrella and a hat for Frazer then feeling cold and hungry I ducked into a little pub called Old Tom and had a glass of red and bangers and mash with Yorkshire pudding!!! I then made my way to the Exeter College Chapel for a candlelight concert of music from around 1700 with a harpsichord, violin and a soprano. Arrived home just as another of Frazer’s raw food dinners was finishing.
Thursday 13th
Puddled around again then went for a walk in the woods nearby. It was a bit muddy and the areas still in the shade still had a thick frost at 1.30pm! It was also a bit stark as the trees have all dropped their leaves of course. Jane called in again as she was getting a quote organised for ceiling insulation and she wanted to clean out the loft ready for it. Frazer helped her empty out some junk and put it in the spare room then we had to leave as we were due at Kamrans at 4.00 for a meal. Quite a few of the family were there, he has six brothers all with families, so there were little kids everywhere. The parents are from Pakistan and some of the wives are also. They had prepared several dishes for us and although vegetarian most had chile so that limited what Frazer would eat but I enjoyed it and they gave me some to take home. They played a joke on him at first and gave him a plate of tomatoes and grass as Kamran had been to one of Frazer’s raw food dinners. He dropped us home at about 8.00 and someone was waiting for Frazer. They started discussing the house so I went to bed. I can’t see this house thing working as Frazer is too easily distracted and won’t put time into getting things happening plus he is talking about going to Boston still. Meanwhile Jane keeps popping in and checking up on us so it is quite uncomfortable as she is such a vegan greeny I am too scared to turn anything on! I will have to leave soon and let Frazer sort it out himself. Atleast he isn’t living like homeless waif at the moment.
Friday 14th
Stayed home all day today and did some washing and typing and reading. Jane dropped in and I was told to turn the heater off because the washing in the room caused too much humidity and besides it is only used for when really cold!!!
Saturday 15th
Walked to the Magic Café on Magdelin St via a muddy walking track along a creek, through a golf course and a bike path to listen to a friend of Frazers, play guitar and sing with some piano accompaniment as well. He was very good. Kamran came later and then took me to town while Frazer rode. Together we did some shopping and socialising then went to Pizza Hut for dinner. I decided to go to the movies and as it was a long film it was after 11.00 before I got home.
Sunday 16th
I cleaned out Frazer’s car ready for sale, read for a while. Went to Christ Church Cathedral at 6.00 for Evensong. The choir was all male ranging from young boys who were hardly tall enough to see their music to adults. They sang beautifully. However the priests asking forgiveness for us miserable sinners was a bit much. I went back to the centre to join Frazer’s laughter workshop and then we went for dinner at the Pink Giraffe which serves food similar to the Chinese veg. place on Port Rd. I caught the bus home and he went off on his bike.
Monday 17th
Day at home except for a walk to the supermarket.
Tuesday 18th
Left Frazer asleep and went to town to organise my trip home but their computers were down so I went for a wander around the shops again and did a tour of the bod. I went back later in the day to do the trip which took ages because what I wanted wasn’t straight forwards so my plans changed. When I finally left I went to the centre and spent some time on the web checking stuff then we were shouted out to dinner at the Kasbah by a friend that builds eco houses out of straw bales. Kamran and his friends showed up later and we jogged back into town, to keep warm, to his car then they dropped me home.
Wednesday 19th
Woke up to a heavy frost , even the roof across the road was still white until late in the day. I am feeling rather agitated at the moment. As the cold weather does not inspire me to do anything so I am sleeping too long and doing nothing. Eventually I headed off to town to finalise my ticket home, then went for a walk to the bus station and train station for some timetables and maybe some inspiration to go somewhere for a couple of days. Then to the post office and back home. Made a salad for Frazer and after a chat had an early night.
Thursday 20th
Bought a few things at the local supermarket and on return I realised I didn’t have my camera. Needless to say this upset me. I worked out the most likely place that it could be ie. Either Kamran’s car, the Kasbah or the centre so Frazer phoned Kamran and I went back to search for it. Unfortunately to no avail. Fortunately I only lost photos from the 12th of around Oxford, including the woods, the concert, the Evensong, inside the Bod, Frazer’s friends and photos of the butcher shop in the covered market displaying a large boar, some deer, turkeys, pheasants, hares and other creatures hanging up….no feathers but the others still had their fur.
Friday 21st
Still upset about my camera but decided to go for a walk along the Thames so I went into town and headed north on a path between Mill Stream and the Oxford Canal that runs between the railway line and Jericho. There were a lot of canal boats tied up and many were occupied. Bags of coal were on many roofs which they must use a lot of as one of the canals was frozen on top. Temperatures are around -1 at the moment. My feet and hands were rather cold and I walk with my jacket collar pulled up over my cheeks to try and keep warm. I left the canal and found myself entering a large flat open field called Port Meadow. I crossed over the grassy meadow to the Thames. There were a few other people out for walks, some kids and their dogs. Some ducks and swans swam in the icy water which I followed north for a while but given it was so cold and that the sun sets so early I backtracked then continued following the river back into town. The track came out at St Aldates where the police station is so I went in to report my camera. Phoned Frazer who had been home all day playing with the voice recognition on my computer, and arranged to meet him at the Pink Giraffe again for dinner.
Saturday 22nd
Jane called in to collect an old Christmas tree to take to the op shop where she was also finalising a raffle. I waited with her and drew the raffle at 2.00 then she went home after dropping me near Gloucester Green where there was a market set up. I then spent some time in a big book shop looking for a gift for her and settled on a word game as the doors were closing. Met Frazer at the centre again and checked my emails with just one from Mum saying Trav was with Ian and she was leaving for her trip. Feeling a bit low I needed a walk so headed off in the rain towards home and Frazer went off somewhere.
Sunday 23rd
Frazer had heard about another café he thought he would like to visit so he took off on his bike and given I thought it was probably too late I said I would walk. Turns out his friends weren’t there and nothing was happening so he met me and said that the area was worth visiting any way so I continued on the walk to Iffley then joined the Thames for a walk back to town. The fog was very heavy and my toes and fingers turned numb but the walk was great. Iffley now a suburb of Oxford had some lovely old buildings with thatched roofs and country charm with fields and woolly sheep. I had flashbacks of a Wuthering Heights, Jane Eyre nature!! I crossed over the old wooden weir/lock past a charming old hotel then the boat house where we were supposed to go. From time to time people emerged out of the mist and passed me by. Someone was even rowing. The majority of the walk was through meadows and the heavy mist blocked out any view of the town but the constant hum of traffic was present. Once back in town I headed for Starbucks and had a large gingerbread latte with cream on top, which thawed me out beautifully. Wandered back to the centre where Frazer was checking his emails and organising some couch surfing in Poland and Prague. Feeling hungry we went to a pub for a meal and listened to some nice jazz before walking home.
Monday 24th
Geoff and his daughter were coming over for lunch so I went and bought some vegys and made some salads. They stayed all afternoon talking food and stuff and I was getting a bit sick of it then I had just done the dishes when Jane arrived and also wanted to chat. Frazer and I were both yawning but we had something else to eat and Frazer started on his issues again about what he wants to do and how I don’t support him and I won’t let him help me etc. so I went to bed feeling drained, but Kamran phoned and Frazer went out with him. I decided to skip the midnight mass concert I had planned to go to.
Waited up till 1.00am to phone Travis and Ian for Christmas. Unfortunately I found him still in Pattya, still asleep, groggy and keen to hang up and Trav was still asleep. Needless to say I didn’t sleep the rest of the night.
Tuesday 25th
Slept most of the day as did Frazer then we got up and while he jogged I rode the bike towards north Oxford (the nicer area) through a park with squirrels. Visited the home of IofC here, to see Frazer’s friend John and Peter Riddle and his wife. We went back to Cowley Rd and I walked home and Frazer went off to party and to Birmingham with his packi mates!!!
Wednesday 26th
Awoke feeling very agitated ,I guess the pending journey and the fact that I am going home is the cause. Cleaned the house did the washing etc. Frazer had friends over and it was after 2.00 when we went to bed as we watched a long film on the computer.
Thusday 27th
Another non day. Went out for dinner with Kamran his cousin, Harriet and ?? I went home early. Frazer discovered we could access one of the neighbours wifi so he caught up on his emails and after returning home from his taxi run was still awake when my alarm went off.
Friday 28th and Saturday 29th
Another restless night and I was awake before the alarm at 5.30. Caught the bus into town and then the one to Heathrow. Made good time ie. Only one hour so plenty of time to hang around waiting for my flight. Lost about 8 hours as we arrived in KL at 7.30am their time, but 12.30pm England time. Checked into the Pan Pacific and had a big bath to soak away the dreariness of having been living in a dead person’s home and the cold!! Eventually went to sleep.
Sunday 30th
Up at 1.30am to catch my 4.00am plane. Two hours not necessary as they said as the gate wasn’t even open. Flight to KK was only 2.5 hours so arrived very early but my bag had been left in KL. I checked into the hotel and went for a walk. Had to get used to the smell and humidity of Asia again! Found the local’s market. Realised I didn’t have my credit card so I started panicking that I had dropped it. Phoned the hotel to see if they had it but they said no but as I was in a stew I went back and luckily they now had it!
Monday 31st
Did a round of the shops including large shopping centres, streets of stalls and streets of chinese and general traders. Every second shop seemed to be a phone shop. The quality of other goods I looked at was pretty crappy. I still couldn’t find my model of camera so I bought a smaller cheaper version of an Olympus with similar functions so that I didn’t have to learn how to use it. Then I wandered off towards the foreshore and found sheds containing various market type stalls selling all sorts of things but mostly fresh food. Then another big shed crammed full of crappy souvenir stuff with every trader selling pretty much the same thing. (The same stuff is sold in Bali and Phuket and probably Queensland.) The next market was open air with lots of really fresh vegys and fish. There was also lots food stalls with large pots of oil and lots of frying going on. I bought some fried banana….a bag full for 1 ringit. Spent the evening dining on the balcony on the 11th floor waiting for the new year to start but gave up at 10.30 and went to bed.
Tuesday 1st
Spent the morning by the hotel pool relaxing then joined some pommy soldiers, two girls and two guys, who are based in Brunei, for a trip to the local zoo. A pretty ordinary zoo but a pleasant enough little outing.
Wednesday 2nd
Decided to walk to the museum/art gallery/native village which was further than I thought but although quite hot and humid it was something to do. More time by the pool to cool off. The pool is half in the shade and the days are cloudy so I haven’t actually been in for a swim. Another crappy meal in the hotel and early to bed again.
Thusday 3rd
Picked up at 7.30 for a trip and a couple of nights at Mt Kinabalu. A lad from Perth and a couple from Singapore were also with me. The trip was about two hours to the base past a pleasant area of KK then into the country side past shanty villages, gaily coloured homes as well as some old wooden ones. After registering we set off up the mountain at about 10.30 in the rain. There were lots of others going up as well so this helped detract from the terrain and the rain and I made it up in about seven hours arriving in time for an early dinner and early bed. Depending on the weather they allow six or seven hours. The food was good and the bunk was comfy.
Friday 4th
The room got a little overheated and one of the others got up to turn it off at about 12.30 and woke me up so I didn’t really go back to sleep after that. So when others started moving around at 2.00am I was awake ready to go. My shoes and socks plus my jeans had dried out so that was a bonus. Grabbed a cup of coffee and off we went. Chris from Perth wasn’t well with a cold so he decided not to come. The climb was quite steep and then it turned into staircases which were almost like ladders. After this there was a rock face with ropes to pull myself up and along. This then flattened out a little and the terrain was a sloping rock face with little streams of water. I had also lost the Singapore couple by this stage and my guide had caught up to help me. We had to pass through another check point and register our name etc. for the final ascent. The going got pretty tough from here on and my fingers and toes were frozen. I was determined to make it to the summit but after a few stops trying to find the energy to go on I sat down and decided I couldn’t manage the last bit which although not very far it was very steep. So we turned around to go down just as the sun was coming up. I couldn’t believe the terrain over which we had passed and it was quite scary to think if I had slipped it could have been quite tragic! We were back down to the hut at 8.30am. after 6 hours climb. After breakfast and collecting my things we set off at about 9.30am to go down to the starting point. My right calf area had started to hurt soon after I started the descent from the peak and it got worse so the trip down was a very slow and painful one. I didn’t realise how many steps we had traversed on the way up nor how high and steep they were. The rocky paths were also way more uneven and difficult than I had noticed. The weather had cleared and it was now hot and sunny so I drank from the water tanks at each stop. Chris had woken from his extra sleep and passed us. The couple from Singapore were also very slow so of about a hundred people I was the last one off the mountain and they were only just ahead of me!!!! It was about 5.15pm which meant it took nearly eight hours instead of about five. Another little van took us to the national park headquarters (where we missed out on our little guided tour) and then on to our accommodation. We had our own rooms and it was quite OK. After a hot shower to ease my pains I joined the others for dinner which was tasty and more than I could eat. Straight to bed and sleep.
Saturday 5th
I awoke early to the sound of a cock crowing and then later on other noises which turned out to be Chris, being sick. He knocked on my door at about 6.30 needing more toilet paper. He decided he needed a doctor so when the staff appeared at around 7.00 they organised a taxi for him. Our little van arrived at 9.30 to begin the day’s trip but we waited for him to get back but he decided to stay at the lodge to rest. Our trip was to Poring Springs for a hot spring spa which brought welcome comfort to our aches and pains albeit temporary. After lunch we collected our patient on the way back to KK. He was not due to fly out until 9.00pm so I suggested he sit around at the pool instead of hanging around at the airport for five hours so I kept him company until he left and he did seem be much better. I then skipped dinner and headed for an early night.
Sunday 6th
Unfortunately I also fell victim to the bug and spent a sleepless night vomiting. Once my system was empty I was able to sleep. With an aching body, crippled legs, sore stomach and a headache I dragged myself up to join my afternoon trip. I sat next to our cheery little driver with instructions to stop if I had to! Luckily I didn’t. The little journey took us two hours into the country side heading the opposite way to yesterday, towards Brunei. After a boardwalk we were taken for a ride in a boat along an estuary in search of monkeys. The waterways were, as everywhere, dense with vegetation including mangroves, palms, pong pong trees etc. Saw some of the longnose monkeys we were looking for (but I saw them better at the zoo!). Anyway an experience! They dropped us off at a different boardwalk to wander back to huts as the sun was setting. Traditional Sabah food but for me just some thin soup, rice and melon. I was feeling a little better but not interested in food. Dozed off to sleep on the way back to KK.
Monday 7th
After some breakfast I was collected and dropped off at the jetty to go over to Manukan Is. Only a quick trip and the day was sunnier than it has been so the clean sandy beach looked inviting. Unfortunately I didn’t like to leave my stuff on the beach for a swim so after a short paddle I went over to the other side where there was a cool breeze and thus more comfortable and sat on the rocks with my feet in the water and here I stayed for a few hours enjoying the solitude and the sun. At about 1.30pm I gathered my things and went for a walk to the other end of the island through the rainforest and my only company was a great big lizard that crossed my path!! I discovered there was accommodation which would have been nice for a couple of days. I caught the 2.30 boat back to the mainland then wandered around the streets again for a while. I decided to brave a buffet dinner as it had looked so inviting each night. Well I shouldn’t have bothered really as my appetite was still a bit off.
Tuesday 8th
Emptied my system out again when I awoke! However I was being collected at 7.15am for another trip so I got myself together and off we went. Just a couple from Hong Kong in the van today. Headed off in the same direction as the river trip until we reached Beaufort where we caught a little train. Wow what a train! Very old, wooden, small, open windows only and a bun fight to get a seat. There were quite a few tourists doing the same trip but with different companies I guess. I swear the train had square wheels as well. We rattled along deep into the jungle where there are no roads, stopping at little outposts to drop off or pick up people, past little wooden homes and dense vegetation. After about an hour and a half we hopped off to leave our bags, change etc. and then back on again for another twenty minutes to the starting point of our rafting trip, this time I sat outside on the open carriage though. The trip took about an hour and a half and twice we rode the waves a little wild …the first time the little girl from Hong Kong was dumped…she looked horrified! The next time both of us and a couple of the guides also went over. We were the only boat to do this as I think the others played it a safer as they had more passengers. It was fun! Arriving back to where we had left our bags we changed and had a meal waiting for us. Local food again but for me only rice, tofu and shoots. As we were eating it started to bucket down with rain and it continued so all the way back to Beaufort on the train. There weren’t many seats available on the way back but I scored one amongst the locals, many of whom were dozing. The rain had caused a bit of a mudslide and brought a tree down, which the train had to push out the way. Back into our van and a trip back to KK in the dark making the trip nearly twelve hours.
Wednesday 9th
Last day! Packed my wet clothes etc. then went off for a body scrub and massage which was wonderful. Started thinking that maybe I could set up a little rejuvenation resort at Meningie for short stay revival packages!! Of course there would need to be a lot of infrastructure improvements before that. Then back to the hotel to sit and kill time ready to fly out at 5.30. Still feeling unready to go home, but, well I am on my way now.
